Today, the most important purpose of life is seen as producing and providing benefit. Production has become a self-reinforcing phenomenon that creates people. People who do not produce are ignored. Even though we internally fight against the obligations that others impose on us, these obligations become our habits over time. Obligations that are not chosen by the person and that are often foreign to him/her bring about anxiety and then a period of emptiness in which the meaning of life is questioned due to the person's inability to express himself. Over time, people begin to feel the burden of this situation more heavily, and when they look back, they encounter lost times lasting months or even years. From that moment on, what matters is what the person wants. For this reason, it can be very valuable for people to sometimes stop and think about what they want. Because the pleasure a person gets from fulfilling obligations that are functional but imposed by others cannot be compared with the pleasure he gets from doing things that are not functional but that he wants.
That's why we should leave behind the obligations that others impose on us and think about what we want for ourselves.